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A lady asking a guy out, unspeakable and trashy?

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When I was little my mother would always say "Bridget you are a girl carry yourself with pride and dignity".        As a growing young woman she would say what nonsense is that about God forbid!!!

Stories that touch.

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Don't wear rose coloured glasses, love is not blind!   OLAMIDE'S STORY. The snipping sound of the scissors brought me back to reality, as bits and chumps of my hair fell on my lap. My mind drifted towards you. We talked about this once, that day mazi ikechukwu's widow

MAY 20TH IS ALL ABOUT LYDAC

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There is something big coming and you haven't heard about it!!!!  It's LYDAC (Live Your Dream Africa Conference). This event is just what the doctor prescribed for a change in your life, it's what you need to push you out of your comfort zone and the best part is it's FREE. So what's your excuse! At least think of the small chops na!! Since the

Ifura loogun Agba. (Caution is the medicine of Elders).

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Folakemi wants to pull me into temptation little did she know what she was getting herself into. I, kasali that contracted HIV 2 years ago at the faithful hands of roadside whores.  As a Yoruba proverb goes. If trouble faces you in front kill it. If it turns to the back kill it. My son if you are alone with trouble you will die at its own hands.

The cycle of Abuse

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Kisses. Screams. Struggle. Darkness. Sweat. Grunts. Thrusts. A deafening silence and a bucket of tears. You slowly stand in pain. Gasping as the realization of shame dawns upon you. There is something else. Ha! I remember. Feelings in their multitudes rushing into your head. You feel Dirty. Cheap. Used. Unclean. Angry. Betrayed but most of all Dirty. Your hand reaches

80% of feminist theorist I know irritate me.

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80% of feminist theorist I know irritate me.  You talk about men being scums, breaking your hearts, treating you like second class citizens, not allowing you get positions in substantial places, government, you can't be CEO's of companies blah blah blah Have you stepped back to take a look at the little things. What make it standard practice for a man to open the car door for a woman. Let me guess you would claim curtsey. Oh isn't a woman also human what stops her from opening the door herself. A man isn't obliged to be the better of genders because he is a man.  What stops you as a woman from paying your children's fees. You will hear them say oh that is the duty of my husband. Says who! Who laid down that golden rule that men shall carry the burden of responsibility alone. You complain about equality yet the little things lie in front of your nose. Sisi Jemima what stops you from splitting the dinner date bill. Or paying for your own transportatio...

YAHOO IS NOW ALTABA?

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Yahoo was already a shell of its former self. Now part of the company is getting an obscure new name: Altaba. When Verizon agreed to buy the company for $4.8 billion in July, it planned to purchase just Yahoo's core Internet businesses, which include its email service, sports verticals and various apps. What's left of the embattled technology company would essentially be its ownership in the very valuable Chinese Internet giant Alibaba. When the deal closes, the remaining part will change its name to Altaba, the company announced in security filings on Monday. The sale is expected to be completed by late March, Yahoo said.